Remember why you participated in the first place

As I was watching my niece coach her volleyball team in the Sodak 16 volleyball playoff game last week, I heard a promo on the website about why kids play high school sports. 
Having been a part of that world since I was knee-high, I know all the reasons why young people should give it a shot, but I was curious to see if those reasons resonated with today’s athletes.
So, I decided to ask.
I talked to football players, basketball players, volleyball players, soccer players, runners, swimmers and wrestlers. All of them have had their own unique experiences within their sports, and they have all had varying levels of success.
The number one response that I heard over and over from each and every one that I talked to was that they play high school sports because it is fun. 
It’s as simple as that. They play because it is fun.
Another very popular reason was it allowed them to develop and enjoy relationships with teammates and coaches. Many said they participate because they love competition and that it’s an easy way to stay in shape and stay healthy.
I was not surprised to hear any of these answers.
Several also added that on top of all of these reasons, they play for the life lessons they gain from being part of a sports program.
Self-discipline, commitment, dedication, team work and compassion for others were all identified as valuable tools they have gained through playing high school sports.
It was good to hear that these kids realize all that participating has to offer. 
The memories you make and the lessons you learn while playing high school sports are long enduring. I still remember the moments I spent with my team in practice, on the bus and in games and it’s been a minute since I played.
Ironically my daughter (Bailey Karp) seemed to read my mind and posted the following on Facebook as this column was coming to life. 
“Sports in general bring more to the table than just being in shape and living a healthy lifestyle. They teach discipline, respect, overcoming adversity, teamwork, friendship, and many other important lessons that will help later on in life.”
“There are so many times I wish I could go back and do this or that better, appreciate more what my coaches were sacrificing, and [recognize those] moments when I would have just played for the love of the game.” 
“You never get this time back, so play for you. Play for the little girl who grew up loving the sport. Play for the love of the game.”
“I wish everyone could understand the feeling you have when you no longer have the opportunity to be a part of something so special, [because] before [you know it] it’s over.”
To all of the athletes out there, be in the moment and keep on making those memories. Your days of being part of your Dogie team are numbered and precious. Remember your why.