You’re Not Fine Just the Way You Are

Have you heard someone say, ‘I’m fine just the way I am’? It sounds kind. It sounds affirming. But it’s not true. It’s not biblical, and it’s not safe.

Jesus didn’t come to affirm us. He came to transform us.

Romans 12:2 says, “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.” That’s not about staying the same. That’s about change. Growth. Renewal.

The Bible warns us not to trust ourselves. Jeremiah 17:9 says, “The heart is more deceitful than all else, and is desperately sick; who can understand it?” If we were fine the way we are, we wouldn’t need a Savior. We wouldn’t need God’s Word to correct us.

2 Timothy 3:16–17 says, “All Scripture is inspired by God and beneficial for teaching, for rebuke, for correction, for training in righteousness; so that the man or woman of God may be fully capable, equipped for every good work.” Scripture doesn’t leave us comfortable. It shapes us.

And listen to the words of Jesus in Revelation 3:15–16: “I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot; I wish that you were cold or hot. So because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will vomit you out of My mouth.” Those aren’t gentle words. That’s a warning from Christ Himself.

If your faith never makes you uncomfortable, maybe it’s not faith. Maybe it’s just habit. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is living and active, and sharper than any two-edged sword, even penetrating as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” God’s Word cuts deep. It convicts.

So no, you’re not fine just the way you are. And neither am I. That’s why we need the Word. That’s why we need the truth. Don’t settle for easy words that sound nice. Go back to Scripture. Let it convict. Let it change you.

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“What I write is not for everyone, but what I write is meant for someone.” – Dean Butler

I am the author of two books: Embracing God's Wisdom: A Journey of Faith and Reflection and Embracing God’s Wisdom: Paul’s Commands for Victorious Living. Both are available on Amazon.

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